Wednesday, February 25, 2009

some lessons i should have learned before i had my heart broken :(

Oprah wrote this about men...

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends".A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.Don't stay because you think "it will get better."You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...
a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...
look for someone complimentary...
not supplementary.
Dating is fun...
even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...
when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him
- he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

reality hurts...

Friday, February 6, 2009

Dans La Memorie of a Great Man...


If I could get another chance

Another walk, another dance with him

Id play a song that would never, ever end

How Id love, love, love to dance with my father again


today, marks the 8th year of my father's death.

today, was the day He tooked you away from us.


8 years has passed, but i am still left grieving...

i am left missing you... and i am left wishing you are still here.


i regret not being able to tell you how i am proud of having a father like you...

i regret not being ablet to let you feel how much i love you... :(


you have inspired a lot of lives, have helped a lot of people whether or not they are your relative, and have shown us your goodness in all ways.


i know you are with Him right now, and that you are looking upon us...


Indeed you are a great man, and will always be remembered!


i miss you so much Papa... ;(





Wednesday, February 4, 2009

make me whole


Darling I want you to listen


I stayed up all night, so I could get this thing right


And I don't think there's anything missing


Cause a person like you, made it easy to do


I've waited for so long, to sing to you this song


Cause your eyes are the windows to heaven


Your smile could heal a million souls


Your love completes my existence


You're the other half that makes me whole


You're the only other half that makes me whole


I think the angels are your brothers


They told you about me, said you're just what she needs


And I find myself thanking your mother


For giving birth to a saint


My spirit flies when I say your name


If there's one thing that's true


It's that I was born to love you


Cause your eyes are the windows to heaven


Your smile could heal a million souls


Your love completes my existence


You're the other half that makes me whole


You're the only other half that makes me whole


You make my dreams


Come true over and, over again


And I honestly truly believe


You and me are written in the stars


I live my whole life through


To giving thanks to you


Cause your eyes are the windows to heaven


Your smile could heal a million souls


Your love completes my existence


You're the other half that makes me whole


You're the only other half that makes me whole



by: Amel Larrieux



>im so hooked with this song... i love it!


and i wish to sing this to someone who is worth for my love, and will take care & love me in return...